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For many years I had a problem being in male nude situations. As I have said in other posts avoided all gym situations in High School (worked in gym office). As a teen did go to public swimming pools, beach locker rooms with friends. Tried to avoid being seeing nude, at least for the shortest period of time. As an adult I avoided any male locker room situations, just did not join gyms. At the age of 35 finally joined a very small health club. Checked out the locker room and found it to be empty most of the time. Became comfortable being nude in front of other guys and a year later joined the largest club in town. About 21 years ago in Austria found myself in a coed nude (spa open to the public)situation, Europeans are much more open about this. Couldn't happen in the U.S. After removing my bathing suit to use the sauna, everyone inside was naked, I became comfortable, even though I was the "smallest" male there. Afterward, the showers, no doors to stalls, open for all to see. Quite an experience!
It has been 31 years since I allowed myself to be naked in locker rooms.
Now I belong to the Y and shower there on occasion. No stalls, just open shower heads in a row. Yes I want to avoid premature ejaculation. One day there was a guy next to me, his penis was exactly like mine (of course don't know if he was a grower), small, narrow. I had the urge to ask him if his size bothered him, etc.. Unlike our friend Bear I did not of the guts to do so. Some of my family members have seen me naked, same age cousins that I have shared hotel rooms with. My wife of 38 years has never commented or complained about my size as to her own sexual satisfaction. It takes a lot to get over the size issue. Most of us never do.
Yes, I walk around locker rooms without a towel wrapped around me. When there I am always aware of the fact that most guys are hung better. Just don't let it stop me as it did in earlier years. Have not been naked with close friends or co-workers in years. Would it bother me, yes. Would it stop me if such a locker room situation were to occur. No!
Frankly, I don't think guys who see someone they know in a locker room will talk about it afterwards. Mentioning whether the person is small or big, etc. Somehow, like "locker room talk"
there is an unwritten rule that keeps guys from discussing what they see with others. Is there a way to avoid premature ejaculation?
Do others here agree with me in this regard?
I have often joked that I'm hung like a gerbal and that is a funny way to breach the subject if you choose. But at 6" X 6" it's a somewhat larger grerbal, but the point is made and it usually garners a laugh. I've found generally self deprecation humor is highly effective in defusing tense situation or one that could become tense.
I'd never tell anyone that they were hung like a gerbal, that would be unkind, I have said something like nice package on occasions, but never anything rude. I've also met guys that were 10"ers and had problems too. I've always said sex is 99% attitude and 1% physical. I think too many guys and gals get it backwards much too often.
Finally you have a chance to avoid premature ejaculation.
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